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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Oprah Taught Me Online Dating Ok, so many of you have been having fun reading the perspective my husband had building up to meeting me for the first time. Now here is my half of the story so far, (written by the better half of course) for those who have been wondering. It was a [...]</p>
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<strong>Oprah Taught Me Online Dating</strong></p>
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<p>Ok, so many of you have been having fun reading the perspective my husband had building up to meeting me for the first time. Now here is my half of the story so far, (written by the better half of course) for those who have been wondering.</p>
<p>It was a time in my life when I realized that I had to look at singleness as a gift. You know, too many of us (especially girls) strive to find “the one” in life. What if we spent our lives concentrating on giving back somewhere, and if someone happened to come along in our journey then it will be all the more special.<br />
I was raised in a strong, close family in which we relied on each other to help with issues like friendship issues, dating, dress tips, work, God’s will, saving money, homework, etc. I was very busy in my life at this time, from working with my parent’s at their own business, going to school full-time, and giving my time and help to our church small groups I was involved in. I did not really have time for meeting a guy. Of course, that is when Murphy (I am sure you all know him) said, it is time to interrupt your life.</p>
<p>As I was going through my school, work, church weekly routine, I did realize I was not getting any younger. My story started a couple of weeks before Mark (my husband) received “the checklist,” which you can read about at <a href="http://www.timecapsule.com/milestone-moments/milestone-moment-the-checklist-to-meeting-someone-online/">http://www.timecapsule.com/milestone-moments/milestone-moment-the-checklist-to-meeting-someone-online/</a></p>
<p>I had a couple of friends in my college class who I started to get to know well. How can you not, considering you were studying for your Psychology tests together, and doing sample case studies of clients which brought up important issues in life. One friend, Nikki said, “do you want to go out with my brother sometime?” I was like, “what???” How do you break it to your friend (based on how she has already described her brother in the past), that her brother is not really your type. Well, I was honest with her and basically said he does not sound like someone I would hang out with as a friend, let alone boyfriend.</p>
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<p><strong>How Oprah Taught Me About Online Dating &#8211; The Relationship Profile</strong></p>
<p>After much hounding from my friends, who sincerely thought I was a “great girl” and needed to be with someone, they suggested filling out a profile online. Ha. Boy did I laugh. I would never do that. That is not me at all, I was thinking. I said to Nikki, “fine, if I do this though it has to be very descriptive because I do not want some axe-murderer finding me.” I decided when I filled out this profile, that I was going to use it as a teaching or ministry moment. I was tired of meeting so many guys who thought and said, “there are no more ‘great girls’ out there,” with morals, faith, standards, and intelligence. At that time, I was also very involved as a leader in our church youth group. So I figured, if anything maybe there are other church youth group leaders out there who can share group lesson ideas, games, etc with me. For tips from Oprah about how to fill out the best online profile, check out <a href="http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Online-Dating-Tips-How-To-Write-Your-Best-Profile_1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Online-Dating-Tips-How-To-Write-Your-Best-Profile_1</a></p>
<p><strong>The Ministry</strong></p>
<p>So, I began to fill in the profile as a ministry to teach guys how to find a great girl, a Proverbs 31 woman if you will. Now, do not get me wrong I am by no means perfect. However, I do constantly strive to live my life with purpose and give back to others by instilling inspiration, encouraging, or helping educate in areas I have experienced or learned. I still have my online profile saved on paper in our wedding time capsule. It will be a fun memory to read this again on our 25th anniversary, when we open our decorative wedding time capsule. Get this beautiful Wedding Time Capsule from <a href="http://www.timecapsule.com/product/weddingtimecapsule/">http://www.timecapsule.com/product/weddingtimecapsule/</a>.</p>
<p>So how would you use an online profile to teach or reach out to help someone in the world? Again, looking at singleness as a gift, is one of the best gifts you can give or teach others. It affects your daily, social functioning and those around you. If you want to know what was on the “checklist,” stay tuned to next week’s blog.</p>
<p>Where did you first meet your future husband? Comment below.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2014 20:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Save the Date you First Met, in a Time Capsule Let&#8217;s Learn How to Save Audio Recordings in a Time Capsule &#8211; The Phone Call This blog gives new meaning to &#8220;save the date.&#8221; Drumroll Please: (If you have been following this blog series of how I met my future wife) And now the moment [...]</p>
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<p>Let&#8217;s Learn How to Save Audio Recordings in a Time Capsule &#8211; The Phone Call</p>
<p>This blog gives new meaning to &#8220;save the date.&#8221; Drumroll Please: (If you have been following this blog series of how I met my future wife) And now the moment you have been waiting for&#8230;.the phone call to my future wife.</p>
<p>Over the next 3 weeks we emailed about every day.  I&#8217;m not talking about these one or two sentence emails.  I&#8217;m talking about pages and pages of emails.  We talked about friends and family.  We talked about how we grew up.  We talked about church.  We talked about music and movies.  We talked about everything from what we ate that day to her college professors.  We talked about what path our lives were on and what we saw for the future.  We emailed about everything!</p>
<p>There comes a point when you decide that email is great, but in order to progress your relationship from being pen pals to actual friends, you have to at least talk on the phone.  I finally asked her for her phone number to call.  She gave her number to me and said she would be unavailable for a few days.  This seemed like an eternity!</p>
<p>I waited several days for her to be available.  It was a Thursday afternoon when she told me to call.  I remember that I was sitting in my office and it took me a while to build up the courage to call.  I have never been really good at talking with girls, but this was different.  I wasn&#8217;t romantically involved with this girl, but somehow it seemed like I was.  I felt close to her yet, I didn&#8217;t even really know her.  This made things difficult in my mind.  Still, I pushed through.  I needed to hear this girls voice.</p>
<p>I dialed.  The phone began to ring.  She answered.  My heart skipped a beat as I heard her answer.  Her voice was light and playful.  I said hello and told her who I was.  She giggled playfully and told me that she had something come up and that I needed to call her at her parents house later that night.  I took down the new number and hung up.  The afternoon seemed to drag on forever, but I was ultimately pleased with the change.  You see, while we lived in the same state, she was about an hour away and that meant that the number was long distance.  Since she needed me to call her later that night, I could use my cell phone and not pay for the long distance.  Since it was after 7:00 PM, it would even be in the scope of my free cell phone minutes.  The only thing I liked better than talking to my new friend on the phone was doing it for free!</p>
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<p>That night I called her a little after my free minutes kicked in.  I wasn&#8217;t nearly as nervous this time.  I dialed.  It rang.  Then it happened. . . Her dad answered.  I was suddenly nervous again.  I explained that I was a friend of Marcie&#8217;s and asked if she was there.  He proceeded to yell, &#8220;Marcie, some guy is on the phone for you.&#8221;  He then said, &#8220;Is this Steve?&#8221;  I said, &#8220;Ummm, No.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;George?&#8221; he continued.</p>
<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; I replied.</p>
<p>&#8220;Kevin?&#8221;</p>
<p>It was about this time that I could hear her in the background struggling for the phone saying things like, &#8220;Dad, Stop!  Give me the phone!  Quit!  That is so embarrassing.&#8221;</p>
<p>He finally said, &#8220;Well, I don&#8217;t know which guy you are, but here she is&#8221; and he handed Marcie the phone.</p>
<p>I could hear the panic in her voice.  She wasn&#8217;t sure how I would take this interaction.  She apologized and explained that her father had a habit of embarrassing her.  While I thought it was funny, I had to play like I was offended!  &#8220;So, who is Steve, Kevin and George?  Is one of them your boyfriend?&#8221;  I could actually hear her shift her weight in embarrassment!  Despite her embarrassment, we had a good conversation.  Over the next few days and weeks we were able to get to know each other well.  I learned how close she was to her family and how big a jokester her father actually was.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t realize it, but I was beginning to actually have feelings for this girl.</p>
<p>You know it is so easy to forget all these details if you do not write them down, let alone save those special ticket stubs with the date and time stamped from your first date or event where you met your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, etc.</p>
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<p>This is why we do what we do. We help you preserve even these special moments like the first phone call from when you met &#8220;the one.&#8221; Save the date, time, and recording of your first phone message in a Wedding Time Capsule, to listen to years later. With so many people out there with smart phones now, I wanted to offer this website as a help to teach you how to record your phone calls to save in a time capsule for years, to listen to and reminisce over when you are older or on that special 25th anniversary for your marriage. Check out how to record your phone calls at <a href="http://lifehacker.com/how-can-i-record-calls-on-my-smartphone-479216478" target="_blank" rel="noopener">http://lifehacker.com/how-can-i-record-calls-on-my-smartphone-479216478</a> If you use another means to record your first phone call with that someone special, make sure you have a means to listen to it back years later in the future.</p>
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